Men Share on Radio, the Problems their Wives Face as FGM Survivors, The Gambia

Men Share on Radio, the Problems their Wives Face as FGM Survivors, The Gambia

By Sarjo Camara-Singateh

Sarjo Camara- Singateh anti-FGM activist creates a radio show which was held in honor of international women’s day to reflect on the achievement and challenges of women on issues that affect women after undergoing FGM.

Radio show

As we all know FGM is a deep-rooted culture that has been hindering the progress of women both culturally and psychologically. To create awareness around this topic of discussion I organised a panel discussion phone-in program to gauge the understanding of my listeners and also to learn from some of the positive comments.

The first day I invited two trained midwives, senior and program officer respectively, one journalist. On the second day, I invited a Lady counselor, Midwife, and a journalist to talk about FGM, Gender-based violence, effects of FGM both short-term and long-term complications.

I believe they both have important information/evidence to share with my audiences and given the public research-based information is key than given them speculative information about the practice and its effects. I also believed that they are all individuals that can tell their own stories, for the lady councilors is a survivor and the journalist was someone who was protected by her father from undergoing FGM.

My first topic was to challenge Men to make an END to FGM. With awareness creation, many men will stand up to women and they would protect their children.

Progress

Having a man share a media platform with women, supporting the campaign against FGM is a major success. With all the potential backlash especially callers since it was a live phone-in program, he was brave for that. 

 “It is everyone’s responsibility to END FGM” 

Caller

Difficulties encountered 

The problem I faced was during the execution of my project, the religious leader that I invited could not make it at the 11th hour, so I had to bring another health personnel to make the panel balanced.

Strong messages that came out of the media project

  • First, a caller called and was in denial he said FGM is Islamic and claimed there was evidence to back that. 
  • The second caller acknowledged that FGM is harmful and that his wife always encounters problems whenever she is having a baby. He also revealed that his wife will always tell him that she does not feel much pleasure whenever they are making love.
  • Another caller said we should continue this radio program and call on religious leaders to preach against FGM practice

Unexpected Wins; Challenges whilst carrying out this project

The unexpected wins are, many men participated in the phone-in program. Some had to send in text messages because they couldn’t get through. Some had to leave messages for me to call them and discuss further. Some men spoke of what they encounter with their wives when making love. The lady who was the Radio operator said because of insults that she did not go through FGM one day this forced her mother to send her to be cut.

Impact 

Calls came from the furthest regions like the Upper River Region, Lower River Region, and other parts of the country. People also made comments on social media platforms. The radio station is one of the most popular privately-owned media houses in The Gambia. 

Linkages 

Some of the callers would call to say we should not stop at FGM alone but there is a lot of Gender-Based Violence happening. Almost all the callers were saying that the program should be continued. 

What would I do differently next time  

What I would do differently is to invite someone who will be willing to talk from experience alongside a mid-wife to talk about the complications they face at the health center level. 

I would also want to do a program around FGM and ‘Taba’ is a substance that women used to insert into their vagina for either pleasure or because some are cut, they want to escape the pain of having sex.

Ruth Harley

Ruth is an opera singer collaborating with women in Kenya using indigenous music to end FGM. She is compiling stories written by End FGM campaigners working with the Global Media Campaign to End FGM.